I’m not going to the Olympics.
This is the reality of our sport and the story you don’t see
on TV—we have 25 players on our Women’s National Team and we can only send 12.
We’ve all trained, all made sacrifices, all worked for years together knowing
the whole time that there’s a chance we won’t see our names on that final
roster. But knowing what we’re getting into doesn’t mean it doesn’t hurt. I
think it probably always will.
In the week or so after I learned I wouldn’t be in Rio I was
sad and I cried but more than anything else I felt lost. Adrift. Like I had
been on a four-year long voyage and we were finally nearing our destination
when someone told me—actually, you don’t need to go the rest of the way. After
four years of focusing solely on navigating this path, it was just over. I had
put my heart into this and I just didn’t know how to take it back out.
But at some point, as the days have gone by, I realized that
I’m still me. Being an Olympian would’ve changed my life but it never had the
power to change that. Who I am has already been defined, not by the rosters
I’ve made or the medals hanging in my room, but by the way I tried to approach
every day—ready to work, to learn, and to serve my team in any way I could.
I gave everything—everything—I
had, in the pursuit of this dream. And I
say that not with bitterness but with conviction and with pride. I don’t regret
one moment of it and I will not hang my head. Because dreaming big dreams,
going all in and then falling just short doesn’t make you a failure. The failure
lies in holding back and staying small.
So half of my teammates and I will watch from afar as our
Olympic team goes after a medal in Rio. And I absolutely hope that they get it.
This is my family. They represent everything that we’ve built and struggled for
over the last four years. I love them, I wish them all the success and I will
forever be grateful to be a part of Team USA.
And as for me—this isn’t where my story ends. This was just
one chapter. One surreal, challenging, fantastic chapter. Now it’s time to
write the next one.
